A Funny Thing Happened
30 October 2007 22:50 that's life!… At the laundromat tonight. I saw this guy there that I thought I should know, but couldn’t place him.
(In the spirit of Halloween, I know that this story could fall into a horror movie cliché very quickly, so let me say that we were not the only people there: There was also a family and three or four other people that drifted in and out leaving their laundry unattended.)
While I was standing there waiting for the dryer, the mysterious man came up and introduced himself as this guy that was at a birthday party I went to on Friday. As soon as he said that, I remembered him from a margarita-induced haze: He had had on a fedora that made him look like a jazz musician. I also remembered that he was there with one of our student workers.
I thought that he was just being nice and reintroducing himself to me, but he just stood there and kept talking to me. After I added another fifty cents to each dryer for another 15 minutes (what a rip-off, by the way!) he asked me if I wanted to go across the street to this restaurant to grab a drink while I was waiting.
I agreed and we crossed the street. I ordered my Coke, but before I could pull out my wallet he bought it for me. We sat down and chatted for a while and a few minutes later when my laundry was done he helped me put it in my car.
It was a completely innocent situation I am sure, but I can’t help but feel it was a little weird: After all, he came up to me even though he barely knows me. Now in all honesty, I wouldn’t find this terribly unusual, but I know (and he knows I know) that he has a girlfriend.
In most situations I would think he was hitting on me, but this time I couldn’t decide if I was imagining things and he was just being nice. It is possible I suppose, but in my experience, guys don’t do things like that unless they are interested.

31 October 2007 at 06:43
If he didn’t do it because he’s interested, then he is the greatest gentleman in the world!
31 October 2007 at 16:23
Girlfriend or no girlfriend, I’d say he was interested.
31 October 2007 at 19:08
Maybe things aren’t working out with his current girl friend and he’s looking for greener pastures? If it happens again, that could be saying something unconsciously.
31 October 2007 at 20:46
He may just have been being nice…he recognized you from the party so he decided to say hello. If it happens again though, I’d start to wonder, too!
01 November 2007 at 08:14
I vote for an ulterior motive. Guys can be nice, but they aren’t typically that nice without a reason.
01 November 2007 at 10:42
The coming over and starting a converstation could fall into the ‘innocent’ category……but the buying drinks section, that’s a definite ‘interested’.
Was he cute? Lol
04 November 2007 at 15:01
I’d say he was hitting on you. Guys don’t just do that to be nice.